About El Momma

Monday, January 10, 2011

A Love Letter to El Momma's Love on our 7th Anniversary



Seven years ago today, as I made that long walk down the beautiful aisle, surrounded by family and many friends, I could have never imagined this.

Our life has exceeded all of my hopes and dreams. You continue to surprise me and, if I'm being honest, frustrate me. And, I know I frustrate you! But, isn't our life fun!? Your love is amazing. I remember how it felt to fall in love with you. I thought about you and our future all of the time. I loved everything about you and even though I knew you weren't perfect, you were perfect for me. You were and still are my very best friend. Even more so now. Seven years and four beautiful children. Our relationship has gone through a huge transformation in a relatively short amount of time.



We had a little over a year as a married couple before having our first son. During that first year we found and purchased our home, a home in the heart of Houston, built in 1928. We only had twenty months with our first child until we welcomed our second son. Around that time you finished law school, passed the Bar and began practicing law in Texas. Just after our fourth anniversary, where we returned to the Petroleum Club (the site of our wedding reception) and spent the night at Hotel ZAZA (where we spent our first night married when it was still the Warwick) our kitchen flooded and we began major house renovations and a complete rehaul on our kitchen. We lived through it all and welcomed our baby daughter that year. Shortly after she was born, we moved back home into our "new" old house.


And, we returned to Hawaii with our three children to celebrate our fifth wedding anniversary. That was insane! You've supported me as I've made time to write music and lead worship at our church. Your support of God's calling in both of our lives has been instrumental in the spiritual growth we've experienced separately and together.


Our children continue to grow and amaze us. And, during our sixth year of marriage, we had our fourth child, a beautiful baby boy.



We spend our mornings telling children "shhhhh!" "Quiet," so and so "is sleeping." "Lay down." "Good morning." "How did you sleep?" "Go potty." "I love you." "Give me a kiss." ...and so on and so on. I don't know about you, but sometimes I am so tired and wish I could just sleep a little bit longer. And, then I imagine my life without all of this and it's no life at all. These children, these precious blessings that we've been given for such a short amount of time, bring so much joy to our lives. I love that all six of us cuddle up in our queen size bed! You bring joy to my life. I am so thankful for you. You are my husband, my best friend, my love. I love you and wish you a very happy anniversary. Here's to seven more years of wedded bliss!

love,
me
 present
us, January 9, 2004