About El Momma

Thursday, July 30, 2015

The beginning

Day 30 of blogging for 31 days in July is my birthday and I'd like to share a story.

My story begins a little something like this:

Once upon a time there was a family of four living in the outskirts of Houston, Texas in the late 70s. Momma, Dad, Michael (age 12) and Melinda (age 7). They were a happy little family of four. Michael played baseball and basketball. Melinda was an active runner, involved in the Glenn Doman method and attending the Institutes with her family as well as she was a poster child for the March of Dimes. Momma stayed home with Melinda and Dad worked two jobs.
It must have been just after Christmas one year when Mom found out she was expecting a baby.
What a surprise. Nearly eight years had gone by since Melinda's birth. And, although they had hoped and prayed for more children, enough time passed to where they just didn't think it would happen.
Momma saw many doctors. One story she told me stuck out in particular. This doctor, who did not know Momma well, but knew of her family situation and that she had one child with Down's Syndrome gave her unsolicited advice. 

First of all, he told her that there was an increased likelihood that the baby she was carrying would have Down's because she already had a child with Down's and because she was older. He then proceeded to tell her that it would be too much to handle. 

She didn't believe that. She believed that if she was given (blessed) with another child with special needs, it would be part of God's plan for her as a mother. And, if God gave her another special needs child, He would give her the strength to handle it just fine.

The next few months were an exciting time for this soon-to-be-family of five as they anticipated the birth of their little baby boy, Matthew.

Yes, Matthew. A baby boy.  I'm not sure as to why they were so sure that the baby was a boy. But, they were. Matthew had blue clothes and even a beautiful baby blue handmade blanket. Matthew was due to be born on his dad's birthday. Five days later, Matthew still hadn't arrived and Michael needed school clothes. So, momma took him school clothes shopping at  Wieners Department Store. He was thirteen at the time and shopping for jeans. Probably not that exciting...until his Mom asked him to time her contractions. She was in labor! I'm not sure if they made a purchase or not. I will have to follow up on that part. But, I know they went to the hospital and baby Matthew was born that evening. Except, Baby Matthew was a girl and they named her "Rebekah Anne." Surprise! It's a Rebekah!

Thank the Lord they never thought for a second that I would be too much to handle. I'm sure I was too much to handle at times, but that's called being a growing human. Happy birthday to me!


Melinda, Michael and Baby Rebekah

Rebekah and Momma

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